In early November last year, we held a memorial in Safford,
Arizona, for Don and Clarice, my dad and stepmom. We lost them both in 2012. We
sent half of dad’s ashes to the wind in Safford last fall, and I’d saved the
rest for Morro Bay. It’s where the two of them launched their schooner,
Destiner, in March 1964—fifty years ago—after spending three years building her
on a cattle ranch in nearby Cayucos. I thought it fitting to mark the milestone
and the christening by sending the rest of dad’s ashes out to the Pacific.
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Dad and Clarice after he finished restoring this PT-19. |
I needed to finagle a ride out to the entrance of the bay, so
I wandered into the Morro Bay Yacht Club on Friday, May 2nd, to see if
I could meet anyone who might be able to help. I’d noticed that the yacht club
was having a weekly happy hour that night, which might attract a few local
sailors, I thought, maybe even an old-timer who might have known Don and
Clarice. As it turned out, the old-timers weren’t quite old enough, but through
pure luck I met a lovely couple from San Diego who had just sailed into the
harbor that day. (Don and Clarice lived aboard Destiner in San Diego back in
the ‘60s.) We somehow hit it off, and before I could even drop a coy hint about
my need for a maritime lift, Jenny and Russel were already offering to take me
out the next morning. Wow.
Russel calculated that an early morning ebb would help send Dad out to sea, as opposed to an incoming tide that would risk getting him all stirred in with the oily gunk and detritus floating around the docks (which is not to suggest Morro Bay is a particular mess, but it is an urban boat harbor). Very thoughtful. I met them dockside at 8 am on May 3rd and boarded Watchfire 2 in the
light fog. A half-hour later, we were letting dad go at the entrance to Morro
Bay. Jenny scattered wildflower blossoms, while a few seabirds and a harbor
seal joined us for the brief, though perfect wake. The fog rapidly burned away,
and close by, Morro Rock stood out stout and proud in the warming morning sun.
The whole, easy affair could not have gone any better.
As a young man, my dad had dreamed of going solo around the world, just like Joshua Slocum. Well, now he had his chance, even if we'd sent him off without a boat.
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Morro Bay Yacht Club. |
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Mural in town. |
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Where Destiner was launched in 1964. |
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Next morning, driving into fog. |
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So long, dear old Dad. |
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Classic wood boats. |
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Russel and Jenny.
Destiner. |
My husband and I purchased Destiner in Hawaii in 1972, and spent seven glorious months living aboard (anchored in Ala Wai Harbor) and sailing around the islands. Great times.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the note! I'd love to hear more--curious if you have any photos? You can email me at kenwilcox [at] verizon.net
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